Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Sweet 15
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Recent Abbie-isms
"God, please be with the kids at school because they are talking too loud and Mrs. Docter is going to get a headache"
"Something terrible happened at school. We are working on 10's.......10, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60.....and we can't find the 70!"
"Do you think you could show me some grace today and not give me my consequence?"
"If you had a fire at your house Grandma, first go to your bathroom and get your high heels on and your make up and then you can go out of your house looking good!"
"Mom, Santa must be an awfully nice person to give everybody presents."
"Mom, I'd just really like to go to the North Pole right now, because Santa has to just be so busy wrapping all those presents."
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Safety Zone
Saturday started out with a Women's Christmas Tea at the church for Vicky. Soon after the kids and I were off to watch Jacob play basketball. He is on a winter 3rd grade league and I am one of 3 assistant coaches. They basically practice and learn skills 3 hours a week and will play in one or two tournaments next Spring. Lately, Julia has been on a kick to change her clothes to see how many outfits she can wear in a day. So while at the gym, I shouldn't have been so surprised to look over and see Julia with her shoes and socks off and starting to test out whether she should take her shirt off or not. I quickly went over and convinced her the better choice was to put her clothes back on. Abbie said to me, "I'll watch her for you, Dad!". The afternoon brought some board game time with the kids. A favorite one for them is Sorry!. I can vividly remember growing up playing this game with my Grandma Schneider. She always had unique games like Waterworks, Touring, SkipBo, and others. She was always ready to play games with us.
We sprawled out on the floor, chose up colors, and shuffled the deck. Everything was going fine until about half way into the game when Julia had en
ough of being "sorried", by Abbie, and having her pawns returned to the 'start'. She reached over and in one swoop, relocated 6 pawns and half the deck under the couch. As you can imagine, the others did not appreciate her actions and as their 'world' was coming to an end, I quickly called 'do over' and got them back on track. I explained to Julia that her turn at returning the 'sorry' favor would be coming with the pick of the right card and that she needed to get her pawns into the 'safety zone' as quick as possible. In the 'safety zone', no harm can come to your pawn. Even though you are not all the way 'home' yet, your pawn is still safe from the all the action around the perimeter of the board. Jacob ended up winning the game, Julia was second, Abbie was third, and I came in a 'peacekeeping' last.
As I later thought about that 'safety zone' function of the game, I was reminded of how true that is with being a child of God. The second we accept His free gift of salvation through Christ, we are whisked away into His 'safety zone' with our names written into the Book of Life, and eternally safe.
But His safety zone is a little different than my safety zone. I would rather be inside that area on the board where no harm can come and nothing but smooth sailing in to home. He leaves us in this imperfect world, on the perimeter of the board, where the 'sorries' of life come and send us back to the start or we go backward instead of forward. But there is also much joy along the way as well, such as family, work, hobbies, using our talents, and exploring His creation. He leaves us on the 'board' so we can experience all of these things to prepare us for our eternal state as well as to show others the way to the 'safety zone'
There is much joy in knowing that there is nothing that can separate us from the love of God and being in His 'safety zone'.
"As it is written, "For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered." No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord." Rom. 8v36-39 ESV
Friday, December 5, 2008
School Program
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Friday, November 21, 2008
2008 Distinguished Civic Service Award

Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Fall Break
It was great to get away for a short time. The kids had not seen a pool in almost 3 months so they could hardly contain themselves during the grueling, hour long, drive south.
A few things I learned while away.
1. The sound of rushing water is relaxing, even with 50 other kids running around you.
2. The water at the Ramada is cold.
4. Jacob definitely has Mediterranean blood from somewhere.
The girls concentrated on all the slides and Abbie even did the big one by herself. Jacob did a few slides but got invovled in a pickup basketball game in the 4ft area.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
School News
Ashton, a boy in her class, who sits at Table 3, came over to her (Table 2), and kissed her right in the middle of class time while she was coloring a scarecrow. She said "It was the worst thing. He kissed me right in front of the whole class and the teacher too!" I asked her what her teacher did. The teacher told him to "Mark it down as a 'Time Out'!"
Looks like I'm going to have to get my bat out a lot sooner than I thought.....
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Bama
But this time I found her with a copy of my recent 'New York' magazine with Obama on the cover and reading out loud "bama, bama, bama...". I didn't know if I should grab the magazine and tell her to stop brainwashing her baby or to grab the camera. I elected to grab the camera and take some photos.
I think these photos could be compared to the 'naked in the tub' kind of pictures that parents always bring back to embarrass their kids at graduations and weddings, etc.
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Who Is In Control?!
Blessed be the name of God forever and ever,
to whom belong wisdom and might.
He changes times and seasons;
he removes kings and sets up kings;
he gives wisdom to the wise
and knowledge to those who have understanding;
He reveals deep and hidden things;
he knows what is in the darkness,
and the light dwells with Him.
To you O God of my fathers,
I give thanks and praise...
Daniel 2v20-23a ESV
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Happy Halloween!
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
"Indiana Jacob Jones"
"Mom, you know that commercial where that guy Indiana Jones swings through the trees? Well, that's what I want to do." Trying to be a little persuasive and get him to hold off on his idea until Dad got home (thinking maybe he'd forget about his idea).....really didn't make a difference. He had this idea and was going to figure it out. He proceeded to tell Abbie and of course Abbie was hooked into the plan. Not too long after, I looked out and saw them with a big rope, a ladder, and some good teamwork.
So if you drive by our house and see this rope hanging from our tree....just picture "Indiana Jones" himself.... swinging from that tree.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Pre-School or Homeschool
The other day while Abbie was at school, Julia wanted to color. When she was done she said she needed to write her name on her paper. We knew Julia could say the letters for her name but didn't expect to see this written on her paper. I was quite surprised that a 3 year old could write her name like this when never being formally taught. It looks like we may not need to send Julia to Pre-School next year as she's being home-schooled by Abbie this year.
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Never a Dull Moment
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
5 Boys!
The other night Abbie was praying before she went to bed and in the middle of her prayer she said, "And God, please be with Ellie and her new baby and let's see....there's 1-Kenny, 2-Zach, 3-Nick, 4-Ben, and 5-the new baby. That's a lot of boys for Ellie to take care of so she might need some help."
Ellie - we know you'll be able to handle those 5 boys most days, but on days like... well, you know....just remember Matthew 19:26.
Thursday, October 16, 2008
3 and a 8
Abbie: "Dad, I know how old you are today!"
Me: "Oh yeah, how old?"
Abbie: "It's a 3 and a 8."
Me: "Oh really"
Abbie: "Yep, and that's really old!"
Me: "Thank you, Abbie"
I have noticed the past few years the joy of having a birthday has picked up with having kids. Growing up, mom always made sure we had a knockout birthday party with a cake to match. Having a birthday in the fall, I always remember inviting friends from school to play football in a pile of leaves. For some reason, the only real gift I can remember from a school kid was an Elvis record. I don't know who invited that kid but he wasn't in attendance the following year.
As we get older through the 20s and early 30s, we kind of just open the cards, with the money falling to the counter, and we go about our work lives as another day. Don't get me wrong..thanks for the cards..I read and appreciate every one..especially ones with money.
But now, having a passel of kids (Abbie counts as two), generates an excitement that is bursting at the seams as they try with all their mite to keep their little bundle of surprises from spilling out. It is so fun to watch. You can't help but go back to your youth and return the excitement. This year I got a bag of Jack Links jerky for hunting, a very large Hershey bar (mostly for them to share with me) and a pair of silky SDSU gym shorts to match Jacob's. We had a pumpkin cake with cream cheese frosting. Julia just ate the frosting off of her piece. What joy in simple things. The best part of my birthday is being surrounded with my wife and kids.... And pheasant hunting always just a day or two away.
Abbie was learning James 2:10 for AWANA, which says "For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it." Abbie's version was this, "For whoever keeps the whole law and stumbles at just one point is guilty and out of the game." As Mom kept trying to correct her, she replied, "Well, it's basically the same thing, Mom."
I am thankful to God for His grace to "keep me in the game" for 38 years.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Happy Birthday Brent!
When we came to Dad's birthday the kids just lit up with excitement. The conversation picked up quickly as all the kids wanted a say about celebrating dad's birthday: his cake, his presents, and his party. Jacob said, "Hey dad. Who are you going to invite to your party? Are you going to invite that guy Mike from work who you went golfing with this summer to your party?" Brent quickly assured Jacob he'll take a small party with the kids to help him celebrate.
So this afternoon was spent with the kids planning and preparing for the "big day" tomorrow. They were so excited when he came home from work eager to share what they had been up to. Abbie was dropping hints all night long. Although your party might be small - we know it will be memorable and exciting! As Abbie says, "I know how old you're going to be. The first number is a 3 and the second number is an 8. And that's Old!" Happy Birthday Brent!
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Picture Worth a 1,000 Words
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Little Singer
Julia hammering out her version of 'Blessed Be the Name'
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Fall Saturday
My favorite girls!
Trying to score one for the team.
After the game Vicky, Abbie and Jacob went to Sioux Falls shopping while Julia and I stayed home, hanging out, watching Incredibles, and working a little around the house. When they got back we went on a little hike to look for leaves for a school project for Abbie.
Julia helping Dad get the popcorn popper out for an evening snack.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Jesus Is My Friend
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Candid Camera
Jacob came home the first time and asked if we had known about the tape from the security camera in their room. We said not yet but maybe sometime. He said well if you do see it you might see me messing around a little bit but not too much. About once or twice a week Jacob will come confessing something in the hopes to stem the tide of any trouble that may come his way if we see something.
A recent conversation this week went something like this:
Jacob: "Dad, if you see the video tape today you just might see me messing around a little."
Me: "Oh yeah, like what?"
Jacob: "Oh, Ezra and I were shooting pencils back and forth during reading time but I think Ezra did more than I did."
Me: "Did your teacher see you when you were supposed to be reading?"
Jacob: "No, that's why she has the camera."
Dad: "So what are you going to do next time Ezra wants to shoot pencils?"
Jacob: "Well, I keep looking for the camera so I could know where it was and try not to be on it."
He for sure knows there is a security camera down by the bathroom area so he told us when we see that video tape to make sure we notice that he washes his hands every time he goes to the bathroom.
I'm glad there weren't any security cameras back in our day, imaginary or real!!
Sunday, October 5, 2008
Now What?!
I must say cousin Tom was some of the inspiration on starting this blog. I figured if he could do it then how hard could it be. His beloved Cubs wasted away their great season by a 3 game sweep in the playoffs. I found this amazing video clip of this etch a sketch guy doing a tribute to the Cubs. I remember having an etch a sketch, as a kid, and could barely draw a straight line. After trying to draw a picture of a simple house it would always turn out tilted over as if it were blowing over in a hurricane. But this guy figured something out so here's to you Tommy and another try next year! If the music is playing, you can scroll down and click the 'pause' button on the left side.
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Julianna Isabella Rose
To be heard above the others, she is often the loudest one in the room to get attention. After dinner she, and the others, loves to sprawl out in the living room with Dad to wrestle and play 'Hop of Pop'. In keeping up with the others, her independent side is quickly coming out at 3 yrs. old. She wants to go to the farm ALONE to have lunch with Missy ON the horse. She wants to wash her hair all by herself. Her favorite lines are "Let me do it." or "I can do it all by myself." Abbie has learned her match a few times as Julia has learned how to return the "pick'ns" See Child #2 Post.
My nickname for her is 'Baby'. She said to me a few months ago that "I'm not a baby, I'm get'n bigger" True my 'baby' is growing up but she will always be my baby.
Abigail Victoria
This year at the State Fair she rode her Aunt's horse to a 4th place ribbon in the lead line event. The kids love getting to learn to ride the horses and how to do the different events. Thank you Andy and Missy for taking the time to let them ride.
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Jacob-Buddy
The Egyptian led Warriors are now 8-0 with 4 more games left. There are two other big kids with Jake and a couple of speedsters and they all play well together. True to Jacob's style, soccer is now his 'favorite' sport. It seems what ever sport season we are in, that is his proclaimed 'favorite' sport.





